Why believe in Marriage?

30 Dec

Why do people think marriage is the only way to make people happy? It’s true, many people get married before considering the ’til death do us part’ phrase. But why believe in marriage?

Well, aside from the fact that we still fill little girl’s heads with dreams of being the center of attention and a magical prince charming on a white horse, that is still the whole legal and children issue. But did you get stood up on the altar? Or go through a painful separation?

If so, I feel very sorry for you, but I still think marriage is a special thing. My marriage is an incredibly important relationship and God provides the glue that holds it together.  I realize that things in married life is complicated.

Honestly until now, I am in the flight risk with the fear of falling. Funny, Taylor Swift’s line in her song “Mine” and continues, Wondering why we bothered with love if it never lasts.

Can we still believe in marriage? Well, I remember one night when I was with my husband in that poor worn out veranda we have in our humble home, talking and holding hands with him while the children was still falling asleep. That was the moment when I felt so caressed by a man and said to myself, I will hold on and make it last.

I believe in marriage as well as I believe in my husband. I believe that we will not only share a five-year-marriage together but grow old with it.


Posted by on December 30, 2010 in A Piece of Advice, Family, Trust


2 responses to “Why believe in Marriage?

  1. fstopfun

    August 24, 2012 at 11:15 pm

    Well said. It’s funny people say they love each other so quickly. I’m starting to wonder if love is the result of a man and woman’s life commitment + the inclusion of God into their relationship.
    I have been married for a few years and I can honestly say I think I finally know what love is; real love. Everything up to this has just been a diluted level of lust.

    • angelnjuly

      August 26, 2012 at 3:21 pm

      Thank you very much for your comment fstopfun. I believe time can tell how much you really love the person.


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